Arising Phoenix Checklist

    This check list is the very one I not only came up with but use to keep myself in check. By asking myself if am I willing to accept, I am already accepting that I have the will to make the necessary changes needed to grow. This list is not just for this site. Use this anytime you are having a challenge when doing inner work and discovering self.

     During my journey, I realized I was too stubborn to make changes. Where my ego would protect me the most, is where I was most reluctant. I was fearful that I would not be protected, loved or supported if I let go of the things that used to serve me, but no longer did. That's when I had to become more honest within myself, knowing that honesty is where my honor stood. I had to realize, there was no honor in a victim mentality. And in all honesty, I am way beyond a victim, I am a survivor and SO much more, and are you.

  • Am I willing to accept change? (Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually?)

  • Am I willing to become 100% honest?

  • Am I willing to accept uncomfortability?

  • Am I willing to accept that I may still be living with fear, excuses and hurt?

  • Am I willing to accept that its time to let them go?

  • Am I willing to accept I may still have a victim mentality? And that I must let it go?

  • Am I willing to accept that I must take accountability and responsibility in places that I have refused and/or ignored?

  • Am I willing to accept I may have grudges and that I need to let them go?

  • Am I willing to accept that I am worthy of giving myself compassion, understanding, patience and peace?

  • Am I willing to accept peace?